It’s true, in the game of life everyone just be happy, find love win and do them, right?  Well this is a list of 100 tips-yes-100, that will help with that goal.  Win at Life. Win at love. Win in Business. Just win wIN WIN!  I want you to win. You want you to win and so do your haters, so they can keep having something (or someone) to talk about.  All these tips can be used in all three categories-they are transcendent-they apply everywhere.  I’m no psychologist (minored in it though!) but they help me everyday and I hope they help you!   Be the best version of your self everyday and live your best life!  Win girl!

Here It Is!  Enjoy!

1. Read-Knowledge is power
2. Listen-listen to those around you and most importantly-listen to yourself
3. Observe-Be still and observe your surrounding-you will always learn something new.
4. Change-in order to grow we must change, habits, ideals and location sometimes.
5. Ask open ended questions-it helps you get more out of the answers.
6. Expand-expand outside of your comfort zone, to grow.
7. Believe-believe in yourself.
8. Do-Do things that make you happy.
9. Be kind to people-even when they aren’t the kindest themselves.
10. Smile-Smiling brings your mind to peace
11. Love hard, love often. It makes your heart smile.
12. Play with kids-it gives you new perspective,
13. Be appreciative-It could always be worse.
14. Learn something new at least once a month-it keeps your mind sharp and fresh.
15. Do practice a healthy diet-keeps your body going.
16. Do indulge in delicious food though every once in a while-makes you appreciate life.
17. Do be creative-creativity gives you a great lease on life-you have unique talents.
18. Study a different culture-helps you to understand others and see that differences may not be so different after all.
19. Give advice when asked-you may have some information of value to someone.
20. Take advice, someone might give you a new perspective.
21. Strike up a conversation with a stranger-that might be your best friend in the future.
22. Help when able-so many need help, not just people, but animals too.
23. Volunteer-it helps to be more appreciative for what you have.
24. Be humble-nobody likes someone who brags all the time.
25. Share-it shows you care!
26. Do try to see things from others point of view-makes you more understanding.
27. Do be flexible-opens you up for opportunity.
28. Leave open the opportunity for growth-even if you feel you know everything about that subject.
29. Laugh at yourself-you know it was funny.
30. Don’t take anything personally-they probably didn’t really mean it that way.
31. Call when you think of them-let them know.
32. Send silly cards to let them know you appreciate them.
33. Treat yourself-if you don’t who will?
34. Be kind to yourself-you are your best friend first.
35. Love yourself-self love is the best love.
36. Take a long bubble bath-pamper yourself.
37. Get out into nature-it can center you.
38. Take a hike-helps to clear your head.
39. Visit the library-the old book smell is kinda nostalgic.
40. Have coffee or tea with a friend-brings back humanity in a very disconnected world.
41. Don’t procrastinate all the time-be early today!
42. Procrastinate sometimes-sometimes you get your best work this way.
43. Retry something you didn’t like as a child-your tastebuds grow too!
44. Send handwritten notes, reconnect with humanity-a text is cool, but what about your handwriting?
45. Unplug from devices-step into reality.
46. Try new restaurant once a month-new foods to please the palate.
47. Walk or bike instead of driving every once in a while-you’ll notice things you hadn’t seen before on your usual route.
48. Try a 10-minute meditation every morning for a month-bring some Calm into your life.
49. Watch your favorite movie from childhood-it’s great to revisit your childhood.
50. Read your favorite book from childhood-reminds you that you’re still a kid at heart.
51. Play board games-do this WITH friends, not by yourself. LOL.
52. Block out 1 hour in your day to disconnect and focus solely on family-be present in their lives.
53. Block out 1 hour in your day to focus solely on yourself-be present in your life.
54. Be up before dawn and watch the sunrise-it’s really pretty. I promise.
55. Make a meal with friends-then eat it, even if you burn it because the wine was good and you were laughing so hard.
56. Share a meal with people at a homeless shelter-it humbles you and helps you realize that there’s more to life outside your bubble.
57. Be nonjudgmental-you don’t know what they’ve been through.
58. Give someone a copy of your favorite book-they will learn a lot about you.
59. Recycle-it’s good for the Earth.
60. Give old clothes to someone in need-they could really use them.
61. Make funny faces at a baby-if it only makes you laugh for them looking back at you funny.
62. Play a game with a toddler-get down on the floor and see the angle from which they view the world.
63. Teach someone to do something you’re good at-it’ll make you even better at it in return.
64. Be helpful-it’s always appreciated and will make you feel good about yourself.
65. Lay under the stars and consider the universe-do you feel small or mighty?
66. Find the Big and Little Dippers-see if you can find what led so many to freedom.
67. Leave an anonymous gift for someone-it will make you happy inside.
68. Be considerate-why not?
69. Be trustworthy-or no one will want to be around you.
70. Be understanding-or no one will tell you anything.
71. Be compassionate-because this makes the world a better place.
72. Learn to compromise-learn to agree to disagree.
73. Be respectful-common sense, right?
74. Keep things neat-so it looks good.
75. Keep things organized-so you can find it.
76. Keep things clean-so it smells good
77. Be calm &level-headed-so you can sort through problems and get to a great solution.
78. Be supportive-they might need a friend.
79. Let people support you-you might need a friend.
80. Learn to take a compliment-a genuine compliment can do wonders for your self-esteem, you earned it.
81. Learn to give a compliment-if they did it well or look nice, tell them, they might need the confidence boost too.
82. Always be sincere-the only way to be.
83. Have integrity-the only way to be.
84. Be ambitious-get what you want out of life.
85. Keep a neat appearance-it shows you care about yourself.
86. Employ others help when necessary-people are willing to help.
87. Don’t be so hard on yourself-what’s the point in that?
88. Don’t be so hard on others-they probably let themselves down more than they did you…need to make them feel worse.
89. Speak up for yourself-if you don’t, who will?
90. Don’t let yourself be taken advantage of-be your own best advocate.
91. Learn to defend yourself-both mentally and physically.
92. Be interested in what others think and tell you-then they will be interested in you
93. Don’t tell people what others tell you in confidence-would you want someone telling your secrets? Um, no.
94. Have faith-You will get what you want.
95. Be faithful-don’t break their faith in you.
96. Use discretion-overly loud attracts the wrong crowd.
97. Be honest-not opinionated.
98. Be gentle with yourself and others.
99. Keep your word-no one likes it when you don’t, not even you.
100. Do you!